Siao liao la… I am philosophical nowadays. LOL.
Yup, everyone has the right to his or her feelings. No one has the right to tell him or her to feel otherwise.
When someone is angry, let him/her be. Allow the process to go through. When someone is sad, let him/her be. Let it flow. When someone is pissed, let him/her be. Allow emotions to flow the way they should be flowing.
Let’s take a person A’s emotion as a river, and a third party B as a damp. The whole world knows (I hope) that rivers flows downstream. So, if the damp is closed, the water cannot flow down. So what happens? Pressure builds up. Stress increases. A small problem can accumulate and become a big problem, and who knows, the damp might be destroyed sooner or later.
If the damp is partially closed, water still flows through, but at a higher pressure. Damage can be done to the damp in the process. But then, it might be good though, to keep things under control, if you are a pro. Too much water flow to the other side might somehow disrupt things there. A bit of control might be necessary.
If the damp is totally opened, water flows at the normal rate. Great. The river flows freely. Can the other side of the river handle it?
Woah… chim wor… LOL
Therefore, when someone is sad, there is no point in telling him/her to not be sad. When someone is angry, there is no point in telling him/her to relax. When someone is pissed, just stay clear, and perhaps just observe.
Yeah.
I still have much to learn.
IPR. Interesting thingy.