Yeah.. why fight the fact? LOL…
In fact (oh well.. fact), everyone fights facts that he or she is not comfortable with. Just look at yourself. How many times have you fight back, when you hear something that you are not pleased with? How many times have you turn jealous, when you see something that you want but did not get, yet someone else got it easily? How many times have you snapped back at something that just get on your nerves?
It’s true. Everyone fights, in one way or another. The more important thing is, how to live with it. Hahaha…
It’s quite intuitive for humans to try to find a reason to try to cover up a fact. And very fast, too. Some people are better at this than others. Some people just don’t realise it.
Oh well. How to put things in words here. It’s hard.
Let’s get into examples.
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“You are behind schedule!”
“That is due to (tons of reasons)!”
That kind of discussion, is not going to help the fact. The fact that you are behind schedule.
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“The hardware is spoilt. Who’s to blame?”
“(looks for scapegoat)”
That kind of discussion, is not going to help the fact. The fact that the hardware is spoilt.
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“You love him more than me, don’t you?”
“I see him everyday due to (tons of reasons)”
That kind of discussion, is not going to help the fact. The fact that the person is feeling insecure.
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People state facts, for a couple of reasons. 1, is to look for information. 2, is to look for solutions. And maybe 3, to look for assurance. Just use your creativity. Use that thing that is in between your ears, and think.
Ever thought why the brain is situated there? Maybe the reason’s the following.
We humans, see things first. Seeing is believing. We trust our own eyes. When we see things, the reaction that they brought about, is almost immediate. Just imagine, you see your dearest one, being kissed by another guy. What will your reaction be?
You will jump to conclusion.
Next, we hear things. Rumours. We don’t really trust our ears. Hearsay. Ever encounter this thing? You tell someone a solution, but someone is not listening. And then, the same someone goes around 1 big round, and realise the solution himself/herself. It’s exactly the same solution.
Looks like the eyes are closer to the brain than the ears eh?
And how come, the heart is situated so far away from the brain?
Maybe, so that, even when the heart breaks, the brain can still function? LOL.
Maybe.
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Let me look at some of my facts.
- I am a single child.
- I am single.
- I disappointed with myself sometimes.
- I am happy to be alive, even if I am in pain sometimes.
- I play.
Yeah. People work. I play. People work with hardware. I play with hardware. People write codes to meet requirements. I write code to meet ease of use. People write out reports. I scribble out reports.
See the difference?
Mentality.
So why are you reading this? I am telling you to go play!!! Hahaha…
Siao.