And since I am so early (see earlier post), I can start crapping, in the darkness (nowadays, I have this tendency to NOT turn on the lights in my office. Am I turning into a vampire? LOL).
Sometimes, when people ask you something that you do not wish to answer, what is the very first reaction you might have will be?
Is it irritated? Or pissed? Or are you very firm with your stand with a ‘I don’t want to let you know’ type of reply?
Sometimes, I have the above kind of feelings too. Sometimes, the “if duno, ask and you will know” type of thinking don’t really work, if people just think that you are too kpo, or too direct, or simply, too irritating.
Of course, I had my own ‘if duno, ask and you will know’ encounters too. Nonsense reply. Slow reply. No reply. What have you.
I don’t know about others. But I rather have a negative reply, if not a positive one. I rather have some form of response.
Responses are important (did I ever write about this, donkey years ago? I might have). Responses are feedback. It’s a form of communication. At least for me, they are.
And I don’t think anyone will ask a question, just for fun.
Why do people ask questions? To find out more.
Why do they want to find out more? They are curious.
Why are they curious? They are interested.
Why are they interested? Who knows. They just do. Work? Care? Love? Hate?
Kpos, we all are. LOL.
But then, if we spend some time thinking, the reason should be extremely clear. So clear.
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I gave up waiting for replies, I think. Lol.
Be it sms, msn, email, or even verbal.
Sometimes, there’s no ‘handshaking’ involved. No TCP communications. Just UDP packets. Dump-and-forget-about-it. If I get a response, I count myself lucky and blessed. If I don’t, too bad.
Sometimes, it feels like going back to square one.. Hmm.. Wahhaa!
Ok. End of crap. LOL.