This is another example on trust.
Sometimes, it's just interesting to see how humans make use of each other, either in a positive or negative way, to achieve what they want. I have had people finding me for help and/or advice on programming, laptop choices, tunes and lyrics, trouble-shooting, boy-girl issues, gay-lesbian issues, tennis, swimming, etc etc. So many things.
But there's 1 thing that I really don't wish to see it happen again. It happened before. A friend, seemingly messaged for a chat, with the actual intent to dig out information on a third party. Dig out information that they themselves are not able to get, or are not convinced that what they already had from the third party is true.
And I just find it hard to get caught in between sometimes. People who do that tend to be very sensitive to certain information, especially what they are trying to find out is regarding their loved ones. When I say something that is actually nothing, they can always go cook out something from that emptiness of my words.
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That is very bad.
When I say something that is not well accepted by their ears and later their brains (assuming that the information does get transmitted to the brain to result in a cognitive behavior, and not directly to spinal cord as a form of involuntary reflex action), their reaction will be like amplifying my input and generating an output 100 times as strong.
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Er… hardware geeks call these things op-amps, if you are interested to know…
Positive things tend to turn bad, and bad things tend to turn worse. So what am I supposed to do? Lol…
Yes, people tend to twist words around now and then so that they get what they want. If not, we will not have so many gossips in the papers. Why? Because people all like gossips. They like wine too… (erm.. grape vines. Ok, lame…)
If trust is there, do you think things will happen this way? I don't think so. I just think that it will be very nasty to live in a world where trust is non-existant. And very sad too. But of course, we will need to see what happens, when trust gets broken.
"A constant wave of tension, on top of broken trust"
Tension rises. Then people start to think negatively. It's like people who got out of jail, but never get forgiven by the society even if they have repent. Maybe, it will be like the following
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Oh well. Er… I think I have gone into discussions on conditional and unconditional trust way back, so there's no need for me to repeat that. Lol…
But really, please practice unconditional trust if you can. Lol… I think you will gain more than your losses in the long run.
(The conclusion not very convincing hor? No idea how to end la. JH says she sianz nothing to read, so I write something here lor….)