I have nothing much to say…
I was thinking, why I have added this and that, who and who, on msn? What is the motivating factor to add a certain someone into my msn list? Usually, the factors include to know more about the person and to establish some form of identity.
And sometimes, things that motivate you are never near. And you feel like giving up. Why? Because you find no positive outcome. Because you don't see the light at the end of the tunnel.
But then, we have to look deeper. Why this is so. Why there's no positive outcome. Perhaps you are sending the wrong message across. Perhaps you have set a wrong identity for that particular relationship. Perhaps you have been misunderstood. Perhaps the other person is just busy, bad mood, or simply do not care.
The very last 'perhaps' will be a very sad case, it seems.
How to deal with such things? Usually people will let a relationship that has gone wrong to be even more wrong, because they themselves go into a passive way of dealing with such 'conflicts' – avoidance.
But then, let's say you face this problem bravely, but the other end is trying to escape. How? You have tried your best, and you shall have no regrets letting things go. Perhaps one fine day, the other person will understand.
It can be really bad if you keep on pestering. Possible signs that the other party is irritated/having problem/etc are messages getting ignored, messages get replied slowly, etc.
It's still quite sad. There's another method to look at things. Maybe I shall elaborate later or what. For now, it's sleep time.
So much for 'nothing much to say'…
