Yeah… want to zzz… but no. I have to get things done. Crap a bit first.
Wednesday was a super slack day! Went for GEK lecture, and then home! Wahaha! Slept on the bus back to JE. ooOoo… Too sianz to stay in school anyway. And then, went back to school again at 4pm! Lol…
Thursday was a full FYP day. Met prof in the morning. Nothing to tell him. Met Grace for lunch, and Weimin and Zhiqiang joined in too. Crap crap crap till 12. Heh. Initially planning to go swim, but then, by the time I managed to get things done, it's rather late. And so, went home to stone…
Friday was a free day. Supposedly. I was doing work at home instead of lab. Went to West Coast to collect Yellow Pages. Heh… under my name. And I can find myself in the residential listing! Wahahaa…Brought yummy tau huay home… mmmMmm… Afternoon was tennis. Quite sianz, due to the rain. But still, it's fun! Wahaha… No rain will be better though…
Saturday? Slack. Stone. Sleep.
Sunday? Slack. Stone. Sleep.
Sometimes, I think, having no one to buaya with is a good thing, as weekends, I can slack, stone, sleep. The 3 'S' …. Lol…
Ok, complain mode.
When you meet a friend, you say hi. When you are going off, you at least say bye. Right? (MSN does not have this rule. I am applying it to face-to-face meetings.)
If you don't say bye, who knows if you are going off, or you want people to follow you, or you thought people are walking your way?
And you you did say bye, and the other party did not give the feedback to acknowledge that, how will you feel? You will feel that it IS better talking to a wall.
Interpersonal relationships (IPR) do not work one way. It is a feedback system (can be negative or positive, but the desired outcome is positive, ragardless). If you have been wondering why a certain friendship doesn't seem to last long and deep, maybe, it's time to reflect on fine-tuning the feedback system.
As I said before, friends are like your mirrors. How you treat them, you can see from how they treat you (unless you are really wols), as not many people can actually reach the self-less mode of IPR. I tried, but I can't also. Wahaha…
Because people are generally selfish. Selfish, then how to be fully self-less?
It's the same for BGR. If you invest in a RS that has no progress, will you be stupid enough to keep on investing in it, for months, for years, and hoping that one day, he/she will realise it? Not everyone has the time.
Time and Tide waits for no Man. Chances come and go. Grab them, or lose them.
I think everything has to start somewhere. And so, basic greetings are important. Feedback is important. No feedback, and your system will have no control, and you will have the risk of turning into an unstable system. Feedback can cause an unstable system too, therefore, the feedback system has to be full of empathy. It must have the ability to hear (not only listen), the ability to feel (not sympathize), and the ability to cure (not fix).
So, maybe everyone has to start thinking: what type of feedback system do I have? What type of feedback do I provide my friends with? Is my feedback fine-tuned? Am I a good feedback system?
Not many people will be able to get high scores for those questions…
Ok, disclaimer: the above crapping is solely my own opinion, and the testing out of the above opinions are solely at your own IPR risk (somehow related to IP trust). Any damages or incidents arising from the testing, will be deeply regretted… Wahaha!!!!