“Don’t marry the girl you love. Marry the girl who loves you…”<\/p>\n
Wahseyy… see la… taxi drivers just like to talk to me. Somehow.<\/p>\n
This time, this taxi driver waited until minyan got off, then started to talk. Best… Maybe, some things are best not said in front of girls? LOL… First thing he asked was… “gf? colleage?”. Next one: “married?”. Then started his quote of the night.<\/p>\n
“Don’t marry the girl you love. Marry the girl who loves you…”<\/p>\n
He said it with so much force, you can feel that he is regreting his earlier choice.<\/p>\n
Then he started giving an analogy…<\/p>\n
“Let’s say, you love a girl. She smokes, she drinks, she gambles. You don’t like all these, but because you like this girl, you tolerate. You \u00e5\u00bf\u008d. You tahan. Then you both get married. Because you love her.”<\/p>\n
“And then, one fine day, you both quarrel. You bring up this topic. You complain. You think she will do anything? She will just say, ‘you already know I am like that last time what?!'”<\/p>\n
“And let’s say there’s another girl. She smokes, she drinks, she gambles. You don’t like all these, and so, you talk to her. What will she do? She will stop smoking, stop drinking, stop gambling. Why? Because she loves you.”<\/p>\n
“What if you love her, and she loves you too?” I said.<\/p>\n
He continued, “there’s no such thing in this world that’s 50-50. One party is bound to love the other more. Take a look at siblings. Brothers and sisters. Parents are bound to love a particular one more than others. I have 3 dogs. All female. I like all of them. But there’s one that I like most.”<\/p>\n
“Oh” was all I could managed.<\/p>\n
Then he went on to talk about his regrets… about himself marrying the girl he loved…and that he knew there’s a girl that loved him last time, but he did not really care much…<\/p>\n
“But how you know that the girl loves you?” I asked.<\/p>\n
“You will know…” was all he said…<\/p>\n
Chim…<\/p>\n
Then he went on about IR, etc… and I have reached home. Oooo…<\/p>\n
See la… vivid narration leh, even though I edited some dialogues, minus here, plus there. But the essence is there! Get the important point!<\/p>\n
Not bad hor, take taxi also can learn…<\/p>\n
………………………….<\/p>\n
Got a sad news yesterday. One wedding. 5 years’ relationship. Down the drain. Just like that…<\/p>\n
A negative demostration of the above. The girl loved the guy so much. The guy gave up on her…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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