{"id":6016,"date":"2009-12-11T08:33:59","date_gmt":"2009-12-11T00:33:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/?p=6016"},"modified":"2009-12-11T08:33:59","modified_gmt":"2009-12-11T00:33:59","slug":"crapping-time-responses","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/?p=6016","title":{"rendered":"Crapping Time: Responses"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>And since I am so early (see earlier post), I can start crapping, in the darkness (nowadays, I have this tendency to NOT turn on the lights in my office. Am I turning into a vampire? LOL).<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, when people ask you something that you do not wish to answer, what is the very first reaction you might have will be?<\/p>\n<p>Is it irritated? Or pissed? Or are you very firm with your stand with a &#8216;I don&#8217;t want to let you know&#8217; type of reply?<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, I have the above kind of feelings too. Sometimes, the &#8220;if duno, ask and you will know&#8221; type of thinking don&#8217;t really work, if people just think that you are too kpo, or too direct, or simply, too irritating.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, I had my own &#8216;if duno, ask and you will know&#8217; encounters too. Nonsense reply. Slow reply. No reply. What have you.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know about others. But I rather have a negative reply, if not a positive one. I rather have some form of response.<\/p>\n<p>Responses are important (did I ever write about this, donkey years ago? I might have). Responses are feedback. It&#8217;s a form of communication. At least for me, they are.<\/p>\n<p>And I don&#8217;t think anyone will ask a question, just for fun.<\/p>\n<p>Why do people ask questions? To find out more.<\/p>\n<p>Why do they want to find out more? They are curious.<\/p>\n<p>Why are they curious? They are interested.<\/p>\n<p>Why are they interested? Who knows. They just do. Work? Care? Love? Hate?<\/p>\n<p>Kpos, we all are. LOL.<\/p>\n<p>But then, if we spend some time thinking, the reason should be extremely clear. So clear.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..<\/p>\n<p>I gave up waiting for replies, I think. Lol.<\/p>\n<p>Be it sms, msn, email, or even verbal.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, there&#8217;s no &#8216;handshaking&#8217; involved. No TCP communications. Just UDP packets. Dump-and-forget-about-it. If I get a response, I count myself lucky and blessed. If I don&#8217;t, too bad.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, it feels like going back to square one.. Hmm.. Wahhaa!<\/p>\n<p>Ok. End of crap. LOL.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>And since I am so early (see earlier post), I can start crapping, in the darkness (nowadays, I have this tendency to NOT turn on the lights in my office. Am I turning into a vampire? LOL). Sometimes, when people &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/?p=6016\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6016"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6016"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6016\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6020,"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6016\/revisions\/6020"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6016"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6016"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6016"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}