{"id":4967,"date":"2008-02-15T22:21:24","date_gmt":"2008-02-15T14:21:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/?1620"},"modified":"2008-02-15T22:21:24","modified_gmt":"2008-02-15T14:21:24","slug":"key-to-success-is-failure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/?p=4967","title":{"rendered":"Key to success is failure"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As zhenyao&#039;s nick wrote, &quot;key to success is failure&quot;.<\/p>\n<p>To be able to succeed, you have to fail once in a while.<\/p>\n<p>But what is failure all about? It&#039;s about admitting. It&#039;s about acknowledging a wrong-doing. It&#039;s about contemplating after that.<\/p>\n<p>And after all these years of waiting, I think I can really say that, I have failed. In the past, I have hoped for miracles, and gotten them. Now, miracles are rare. <\/p>\n<p>I have to remember people and things that have really benefitted me. I thank all of them. From the bottom of my heart.<\/p>\n<p>I have to apologise to people who have encouraged me, or to whom I have failed to recognise their importance. I am sorry. Please, give me a chance. Even if you don&#039;t, I don&#039;t blame you too. It&#039;s my fault to begin with.<\/p>\n<p>I have to accept the consequences of my actions. I accept all responsibilities. I accept all blames. I accept all liabilities. I write off all bad debts. I confirm all losses.<\/p>\n<p>I have to let go. Sometimes, I just have to realise that certain things are just beyond my reach. No matter how tall, how short, how smart, how stupid, how rich, how poor, how lovable, how hateful I am. For the last time, if things don&#039;t work out the way I want them to be, look from another perspective, and you can find a better world, a better place.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, accept the failure. Avoidance is not the way to be successful. Hating yourself is not too, and of course, hating other people is a no. <\/p>\n<p>With the above idea, a new me will be seen. A new belief. A new beginning. A new hope.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Tennis later. Time to sleep. Lol. The above are all general thoughts. Please don&#039;t start thinking I am not ok. I am just&#8230; a bit not ok, but most of the time, I will be ok (besides that back pain and such). <\/p>\n<p>Have a happy weekend! If I have time, I should really &#039;beautify&#039; this place up a bit&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As zhenyao&#039;s nick wrote, &quot;key to success is failure&quot;. To be able to succeed, you have to fail once in a while. But what is failure all about? It&#039;s about admitting. It&#039;s about acknowledging a wrong-doing. It&#039;s about contemplating after &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/?p=4967\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4967"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4967"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4967\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4967"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4967"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4967"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}