{"id":3876,"date":"2005-02-06T20:41:38","date_gmt":"2005-02-06T12:41:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/?515"},"modified":"2005-02-06T20:41:38","modified_gmt":"2005-02-06T12:41:38","slug":"am-i-too-observant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/?p=3876","title":{"rendered":"am I too observant??"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yes, I am the Quiet One. I sit around, and &#039;look&#039;. I might seem that I do not know, but, well, I know! I know what&#039;s happening around me ok. <\/p>\n<p>My problem is, maybe being too observant is no good. I see people&#039;s facial expression. I see people&#039;s movement. And I try to put a reason to that kind of thing. Sometimes, I put the wrong reason, and it&#039;s bad&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Maybe I should stop doing all those things, and try to think of something else&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Being too observant can be quite disastrous. Sometimes, a simple problem can be thought up by me into a really complicated one, with various outcomes, when the most straight-forward solution is to just ask. It will require lots of effort to find the answer if I do it that way. It&#039;s also very time consuming.<\/p>\n<p>Conclusion: I should ask more.<\/p>\n<p>Having seen lots of things, I think that it will be great to share my views to others. But, having views that are different from people, I seldom speak up, unless people in that group know me well enough.<\/p>\n<p>Conclusion: If one find me crapping more and more, one will know that, we are not really strangers. <\/p>\n<p>Maybe I should go take a course on psychology? No&#8230;!!!<\/p>\n<p>Alright, enough of crap. About bball today! It&#039;s a really hot day! Victor, Dennis, CJ, Fucai (rare player), me, and another ah boy from the shop at the void deck (he won&#039;t tell us his name&#8230; who knows why&#8230;). Wear my bball shoes for the first time! Nice! Can fly! (&#22840;&#24352;&#8230;) <\/p>\n<p>It&#039;s really interesting to note: why people can play very well while in some particular teams, and they just don&#039;t seem to do the same while in others? Some people just don&#039;t pass the ball. Either: (1) They are not looking, (2) they are confident of themselves, (3) they cannot find anyone to pass to, (4) they have no confidence in their team mates, or the worse one, (5) they are simply selfish. Not looking, I accept that, but not in the long run. Confident? Yes, it&#039;s good. Cannot find any one? Good excuse also. No confidence in their team mates and the selfish ones are the worst. Some matches, I can just stand there and watch. I have nothing to do. I just pass the ball back, that&#039;s all. That makes me feel more like a referee. <\/p>\n<p>I can write a whole essay on bball behaviorial and technical observations, but, I will take the whole night to write these crap, so I shall stop for tonight. No more crap!<\/p>\n<p>Tomorrow is a predicted travelling day! Got to go back CSS to collect 2 alumni cards, and also to go shopping with Dennis! He PS me twice already! And ZX, after getting his GF, had forgotten about our shopping agreement last month. Never mind. It&#039;s good that he&#039;s attached. <\/p>\n<p>It&#039;s only 3 days away from the new year, and I am still not done with the shopping. Well done.<\/p>\n<p>But it&#039;s ok for me. There&#039;s no lessons (most probably) on Tuesday anyway. Poor NTU friends&#8230; hahahhaa<\/p>\n<p>And&#8230; without any notice, I have shot past my 500th blog entry??!! That&#039;s a bit fast&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yes, I am the Quiet One. I sit around, and &#039;look&#039;. I might seem that I do not know, but, well, I know! I know what&#039;s happening around me ok. 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