{"id":3783,"date":"2004-11-30T22:53:13","date_gmt":"2004-11-30T14:53:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/?420"},"modified":"2004-11-30T22:53:13","modified_gmt":"2004-11-30T14:53:13","slug":"headache-cold-shower-is-good","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/?p=3783","title":{"rendered":"Headache&#8230; Cold Shower is Good"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#039;s after exams, but it&#039;s still sad. Sad news. It&#039;s all relationship problems. And knowing 2 such things within 1 hour. Isn&#039;t that bad enough&#8230; people wanting to break up after a few years, people already broke up and recovering,  people trying to get into a relationship but failed, people trying not to get into a relationship and in the end contradicting themselves and feeling lost and remorseful.<\/p>\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n<p>This kind of things always give me a headache&#8230; aw&#8230; even though it does not concern me (so far). It&#039;s just sad&#8230; but what to do? What&#039;s going to have will happen. What has happened has happened. Nothing&#039;s gonna change it. Move on. <\/p>\n<p>Easier said than done. As always.<\/p>\n<p>If everyone&#039;s living happily around, I don&#039;t think we will need to live. We live because there are problems for us to solve. Every little problem will bring us to another level of problems. If there&#039;s no problem, there&#039;s no need for knowledge.<\/p>\n<p>But I hate problems. Always giving me headaches. Maybe 1 day, I will get to like problems, and become one mad guy&#8230; I am not solving problems. I am trying to understand problems&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>So problematic.<\/p>\n<p>But at least. At least they give each other something valuable: A chance to love and to be loved&#8230;<\/p>\n<hr width=\"80%\" size=\"1\">Back to Earth&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I really can wait. I can wait for replies. I can wait for people. I can wait for something to happen. I can talk a lot of crap. I can be really quiet. Quiet does not mean I am angry, sad, happy, or whatever. Talkative does not mean anything either. What are feelings? Nothing&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>No. I&#039;ve not attained that stage yet.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, replies never come. Some can take hours. Well, besides waiting, what can you do? Sometimes, I don&#039;t like to ask questions using sms. I don&#039;t know when I will get my answer. Some don&#039;t even care to reply, and that makes me feel like some mad scientist sending out smses to aliens on Pluto. Same for msn. Yeah, I really can wait..<\/p>\n<p>Too bad. Time and tide waits for no Man.<\/p>\n<p>Enough crap for today? I think so. <\/p>\n<p>Had a nice cold show. Headache is gone. Wow. So the remedy to headaches is to have an ice cold shower. Yeah had a swim this afternoon! With Zhixiang, Ruifu and Yingzi! It&#039;s rare that we actually had a girl joining us for a swim. Nice swim anyway. Had lunch at the food centre nearby, and went over to IMM with Zhixiang. So happy! Bought that chair! And now I am sitting on it! Yay!<br \/><\/span lang=\"utf-8\">&#29233;&#24773;&#19981;&#33021;&#20316;&#27604;&#36739;<\/p>\n<p>&#26354;&#65306;&#21525;&#23385;&#26480; | &#35789;&#65306;&#24429;&#23398;&#25996; | &#32534;&#65306; <br \/>&#36710;&#23376;&#37324;&#25910;&#38899;&#26426; &#31354;&#27668;&#20013;&#36824;&#39128;&#30528;&#38632; <br \/>&#22312;&#36825;&#20010;&#28145;&#22812;&#37324; &#20320;&#24212;&#35813;&#22312;&#20182;&#37027;&#37324; <br \/>&#26377;&#22810;&#20037;&#27809;&#20877;&#36935;&#35265;&#20320; &#25151;&#37324;&#27809;&#20102;&#20320;&#30340;&#27668;&#24687; <br \/>&#32780;&#25105;&#32456;&#20110;&#25172;&#25481;&#20102;&#20320;&#32473;&#25105;&#30340;&#25152;&#26377;&#19996;&#35199; <\/p>\n<p>* &#25105;&#21051;&#24847;&#22635;&#28385;&#20102; &#29983;&#27963;&#37324;&#27599;&#23544;&#31354;&#38553; <br \/>&#25105;&#30693;&#36947;&#19981;&#23481;&#26131; &#20294;&#25105;&#20173;&#35797;&#30528;&#32487;&#32493; <br \/>&#21548;&#35828;&#20320;&#27604;&#20174;&#21069;&#24320;&#24515; &#25105;&#36824;&#33021;&#26377;&#24590;&#26679;&#30340;&#24773;&#32490; <br \/>&#38500;&#20102;&#31069;&#31119; &#25105;&#19981;&#24819;&#20877;&#22810;&#35828;&#19968;&#21477; <\/p>\n<p>#<br \/>&#20182;&#24456;&#22909; &#20182;&#22810;&#22909; &#36825;&#20123;&#25105;&#24182;&#19981;&#24819;&#35201;&#30693;&#36947; <br \/>&#20877;&#38590;&#24536;&#25481; &#22810;&#29378;&#28872;&#30340;&#25317;&#25265; &#36825;&#22238;&#24518;&#20182;&#24590;&#20040;&#32473;&#30340;&#21040; <br \/>&#20182;&#22810;&#22909; &#21644;&#25105;&#19981;&#21516;&#30340;&#22909; &#26368;&#21518;&#26159;&#35841;&#19981;&#37325;&#35201; <br \/>&#22240;&#20026;&#25105;&#30693;&#36947; &#29233;&#24773;&#19981;&#33021;&#20316;&#27604;&#36739;<\/p>\n<p>Repeat *<br \/>&#21035;&#20877;&#35828; &#20182;&#24456;&#22909; &#20182;&#22810;&#22909; &#36825;&#20123;&#25105;&#24182;&#19981;&#24819;&#35201;&#30693;&#36947; <br \/>&#20877;&#38590;&#24536;&#25481; &#22810;&#29378;&#28872;&#30340;&#25317;&#25265; &#36825;&#22238;&#24518;&#20182;&#24590;&#20040;&#32473;&#30340;&#21040; <br \/>&#20182;&#22810;&#22909; &#21644;&#25105;&#19981;&#21516;&#30340;&#22909; &#26368;&#21518;&#26159;&#35841;&#19981;&#37325;&#35201; <br \/>&#22240;&#20026;&#25105;&#19981;&#35201; &#20320;&#25343;&#20182;&#21644;&#25105;&#20316;&#27604;&#36739; <\/p>\n<p>&#23601;&#31639;&#26159; &#20170;&#22825;&#36824;&#19968;&#20010;&#20154;&#20381;&#38752; &#26126;&#22825;&#35841;&#21448;&#27604;&#35841;&#22909; <br \/>&#29233;&#30475;&#19981;&#21040;&#21548;&#19981;&#21040;&#24590;&#33021;&#20570;&#27604;&#36739; <\/p>\n<p>Repeat # <\/p>\n<p>&#24076;&#26395;&#20320;&#30693;&#36947; &#29233;&#24773;&#19981;&#33021;&#20316;&#27604;&#36739;<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#039;s after exams, but it&#039;s still sad. Sad news. It&#039;s all relationship problems. And knowing 2 such things within 1 hour. Isn&#039;t that bad enough&#8230; people wanting to break up after a few years, people already broke up and recovering, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/?p=3783\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3783"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3783"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3783\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3783"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3783"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belief.hazelcafe.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3783"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}